Whatwill you say if I tell you that your perception bends reality at the sub-atomic level making reality fluid

nah. if reality is subjective, why can't we envision a color we've never seen before? We can't because reality exists, and our perceptions only serve to help us experience this reality. Our perceptions must have a base in reality of some sort, or else we wouldn't perceive that reality, just like we are unable to imagine the color that doesn't exist.